I think I'm pregant - What to do now... for guys

Being pregnant is a life-changing experience. Whatever decision you make will have a big impact on your future.

It's important for guys to remember that 'getting pregnant' is not just for the girls to worry about.

You've got just as much of a responsibility to make sure that:

a) it doesn't happen in the first place b) that if it does, you face the consequences too.

Maybe you'll feel pretty bummed out to begin with, but it's important that you think long and hard about what you do next.

If your girlfriend chooses to tell you she's pregnant, it's vital (whether you're still going out with her or not) to show
support and consideration.

Obviously every relationship is going to be different, but be as supportive as you can.

Don't put pressure on her to make a decision about what she's going to do with the baby, ultimately the responsibility is hers.
Tell her what you feel, though.

If she chooses to have an abortion, make a point of going to the doctor and the clinic/hospital with her (if she wants you too, that is).

Don't be afraid to seek some advice and information yourself at the help agencies and people we've suggested. Youthline offer great phone support - you can call them free from anywhere in New Zealand on 0800 376 633.

Myths about pregnancy.

Some people think a girl can't get pregnant the first time she has sexual intercourse. This is not true. It is quite possible for a girl to get pregnant the first time.

It is also possible for a girl to get pregnant when she's having her period.

Using gladwrap instead of a condom is no protection against pregnancy.

Doing it standing up doesn't mean you are less likely to get pregnant. If the man pulls his penis out of the woman's vagina before he comes, she can still get pregnant.